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Browse by what the song is about, or search the entire library.Listen to All Songs ♡Songs for “Collection:attachment trauma bonds” · 47 found
The Shouting And The Hush
For when one relationship taught you to brace for chaos and another taught you not to trust the quiet.
Listen, read & enter the story →Second Chances Shouldn’t Feel Like This
For when you keep giving them another chance, hoping this time they’ll finally choose you.
Listen, read & enter the story →Unfinished Equation
For when you realize you’re not only struggling to let go of the person, you’re struggling to let go of the answer you never received.
Listen, read & enter the story →You Knew Better
For when you learned to say your needs as gently as possible, but they still heard your hurt as an attack.
Listen, read & enter the story →Losing You Either Way
For when staying connected feels like losing yourself, but letting go feels like losing a part of yourself too.
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Butterflies Were Just Wasps
For when you realize what you called chemistry may have been your nervous system recognizing something painfully familiar.
Listen, read & enter the story →The Dance
For when their distance makes you chase harder, but the moment you pull away, they reach for you again.
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Nobody Can Know
For when you’ve learned all the lessons, built all the boundaries, and still find yourself wanting the one thing you know you’ve outgrown.
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Half Of Me Still Stays
For when your head has accepted the ending, but your attachment is still holding onto the person your heart learned to call home.
Listen, read & enter the story →Wound Mates
For when what felt like a soulmate connection was really two old wounds recognizing something familiar in each other.
Listen, read & enter the story →Double Standard
For when you realize you were being held to rules they were quietly breaking themselves.
Listen, read & enter the story →Almost Loved
For when their distance made you chase harder, and you kept trying to become enough for someone who was afraid of getting close.
Listen, read & enter the story →Withdrawal
For when leaving was the right choice, but your body still reaches for the person your mind knows you had to leave.
Listen, read & enter the story →Opposite Fires
For when you realize you were both afraid of losing connection, but one of you chased it while the other ran from it.
Listen, read & enter the story →Chemical Ghost
For when leaving was the right choice, but your body still grieves the cycle of losing them and getting them back.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Learned Love From Watching in Silence
For the part of you that learned love by watching what hurt—and is trying to write a different ending.
Listen, read & enter the story →Familiar Hurt
For when your mind knows the pattern hurts you, but your body still reaches for it because familiar pain feels more predictable than unfamiliar safety.
Listen, read & enter the story →Crumbs and Red Flags
For when you realize you weren’t holding onto the relationship as much as you were holding onto the hope that being chosen would finally make you feel worthy.
Listen, read & enter the story →Craving the Hold
For when you miss their touch and the feeling of belonging, but deep down you know you don’t actually want the relationship back.
Listen, read & enter the story →If I Let You In
For the part of you that wants closeness, but still gets scared when someone gets close enough to matter.
Listen, read & enter the story →Too Quiet
For when healthy love feels strangely quiet because your body learned to recognize chaos as connection.
Listen, read & enter the story →My Head Knows Better
For when you can see every reason to leave, but knowing better still doesn’t make your heart let go.
Listen, read & enter the story →Easier To Love You From Far Away
For when you realize loving someone unavailable felt safer because their distance meant you never had to risk being fully known.
Listen, read & enter the story →Don't Let Me Drown
For the part of you that keeps reaching for someone who feels safest at a distance.
Listen, read & enter the story →The Cycle
For when the cycle kept pulling you back in until you finally stopped calling control, confusion, and pain “love.”
Listen, read & enter the story →Fine Print
For when you still miss them and still know why you left, and you’re finally learning neither feeling has to cancel the other.
Listen, read & enter the story →What You Never Had
For when you kept giving more because you thought enough love could teach someone how to give it back.
Listen, read & enter the story →The Spark Didn't Die
For when the closer you became, the more they pulled away, and the more they pulled away, the harder you tried to hold on.
Listen, read & enter the story →Lonely Next To You
For when having someone beside you kept you from admitting how alone you actually felt.
Listen, read & enter the story →Wonderful Nothing
For when you stop measuring your worth by someone else’s capacity to recognize, receive, or protect what you gave them.
Listen, read & enter the story →Underdeveloped
For when you realize empathy became self-abandonment because you kept explaining the behavior that was hurting you.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Felt Everything
For when you were called too sensitive so often that you almost stopped trusting how deeply you were experiencing what was happening.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Should've Listened
or when the deepest heartbreak isn’t losing them, but realizing how many times you stopped listening to yourself just to keep them.
Listen, read & enter the story →Dark Room
For when their silence left you searching in the dark for answers, until you started shrinking your own needs just to keep the connection.
Listen, read & enter the story →Louder Than Words
For when quiet felt like safety because you were used to chaos, until you realized silence could leave you lonely too.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Didn't Even Like You
For when you realize you weren’t staying because the relationship made you happy, you were staying because leaving the pattern felt harder than living inside it.
Listen, read & enter the story →The Detox
For when walking away feels like withdrawal because your body learned to crave the cycle you’re trying to leave.
Listen, read & enter the story →Conditioned To Stay
For when you spent years asking why you stayed before realizing you were slowly taught to stop trusting your own boundaries.
Listen, read & enter the story →Low Stakes
For when they wanted connection as long as it never became deep enough to require them to stay.
Listen, read & enter the story →You Didn't Even Try
For when they came back wanting access to you, but still weren’t willing to choose you.
Listen, read & enter the story →Didn't Leave
For the part of you that learned to mistake someone staying for someone truly showing up.
Listen, read & enter the story →Fell For It Again
For the part of you that keeps falling for the hopeful moment instead of trusting the pattern.
Listen, read & enter the story →Perfect Scares Me
For when you finally meet someone who gives you what you always wanted, and suddenly you’re the one wanting to run.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Knew ( But I Stayed )
For when you knew something wasn’t right, but kept explaining it away because accepting the truth meant having to leave.
Listen, read & enter the story →Came Back Wrong
For the part of you that mistook someone coming back for proof they had changed.
Listen, read & enter the story →Easy Out
For when you gave them every chance to leave honestly, but they kept giving you reasons to stay.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Loved the Monster Softly
For when understanding why they hurt you became the reason you kept staying long enough to hurt yourself.
Listen, read & enter the story →All Songs