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Browse by what the song is about, or search the entire library.Listen to All Songs ♡Songs for “Learning Secure Love” · 20 found
The Shouting And The Hush
For when one relationship taught you to brace for chaos and another taught you not to trust the quiet.
Listen, read & enter the story →You Don't Get To Miss Me
For when you spent so long disappearing to keep them that healing finally means deciding they don’t get access to you anymore.
Listen, read & enter the story →Silence Was Safer Than Truth
For when staying connected felt safer than telling the truth, so you kept swallowing your needs until you could barely hear yourself anymore.
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New Map
For when your old patterns still feel familiar, but you’re finally learning that fear doesn’t have to choose the road for you.
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Hurt With No Name
A gentle, heartbreaking and deeply healing journey from anger through shame and grief to self-compassion—discovering that difficult emotions are messengers asking to be heard.
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Butterflies Were Just Wasps
For when you realize what you called chemistry may have been your nervous system recognizing something painfully familiar.
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Both Things Can Be True
For the part of you becoming someone you no longer have to abandon to be loved.
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More Than A Name
An emotional declaration of identity after years of being seen through someone else’s story—moving from conditional love and hidden motives toward self-worth, boundaries and reclaiming your own name.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Learned Love From Watching in Silence
For the part of you that learned love by watching what hurt—and is trying to write a different ending.
Listen, read & enter the story →Right Feels Wrong
For when someone finally gives you the consistency you always wanted, but your body is still waiting for the part where it disappears.
Listen, read & enter the story →Familiar Hurt
For when your mind knows the pattern hurts you, but your body still reaches for it because familiar pain feels more predictable than unfamiliar safety.
Listen, read & enter the story →My Soul Said No
For when your body called something love because it felt familiar, until another part of you finally realized familiar wasn’t the same as safe.
Listen, read & enter the story →Red Flags Feel Like Home
For when red flags feel strangely familiar because your earliest lessons about love taught you to earn, endure, and hold on.
Listen, read & enter the story →Too Quiet
For when healthy love feels strangely quiet because your body learned to recognize chaos as connection.
Listen, read & enter the story →Don't Let Me Drown
For the part of you that keeps reaching for someone who feels safest at a distance.
Listen, read & enter the story →Already Chosen
For the part of you trying to understand why love can feel so complicated when old patterns get involved.
Listen, read & enter the story →Better This Way
For when experiencing steady love finally shows you how heavy the love you were chasing used to feel.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Was Brave
For when you realize courage wasn’t feeling less afraid, it was choosing honesty and vulnerability even while you were scared.
Listen, read & enter the story →You Didn't Break Me
For when healing means taking responsibility for the ways you abandoned yourself without taking the blame for someone else’s choices.
Listen, read & enter the story →Perfect Scares Me
For when you finally meet someone who gives you what you always wanted, and suddenly you’re the one wanting to run.
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