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No more protecting you
For when telling the truth starts feeling less cruel than carrying someone else’s shame in silence.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Lost Me Loving You
For the part of you that lost yourself trying to love someone into becoming whole.
Listen, read & enter the story →Raised By Opposites
For when one parent taught you to disappear and the other taught you to carry too much, leaving you to learn where your own needs fit.
Listen, read & enter the story →It Makes Sense
For when you stop asking what was wrong with you and start understanding why the ways you learned to survive made sense.
Listen, read & enter the story →Hungry to Be Held
For when the fear of losing connection makes it hard to hear, trust, or protect what your own body is asking for.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Didn’t Cause the Consequences
For when telling the truth leaves you feeling responsible for what happens to the person who hurt you.
Listen, read & enter the story →Going Back Doesn't Re Write My No
For when you keep asking why you went back, as if returning could somehow change what happened before.
Listen, read & enter the story →No Better Words
For when you keep searching for better words, as if saying it differently could’ve made someone respect what you already made clear.
Listen, read & enter the story →What You Never Had
For when you kept giving more because you thought enough love could teach someone how to give it back.
Listen, read & enter the story →Underdeveloped
For when you realize empathy became self-abandonment because you kept explaining the behavior that was hurting you.
Listen, read & enter the story →Narcissist
For when loving someone slowly turned into managing their moods, carrying their pain, and believing it was your job to make them better.
Listen, read & enter the story →You Don't Get To Rewrite My No
For when you’ve been using everything that happened after your no to question whether your no still counted.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Said No
For when you said no before you froze, and still found yourself questioning whether surviving somehow changed what you meant.
Listen, read & enter the story →A Love He Didn't Know
For when you understood their wounds so deeply that you kept explaining away the ways loving them was wounding you.
Listen, read & enter the story →Conditioned To Stay
For when you spent years asking why you stayed before realizing you were slowly taught to stop trusting your own boundaries.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Knew ( But I Stayed )
For when you knew something wasn’t right, but kept explaining it away because accepting the truth meant having to leave.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Loved the Monster Softly
For when understanding why they hurt you became the reason you kept staying long enough to hurt yourself.
Listen, read & enter the story →All Songs