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Browse by what the song is about, or search the entire library.Listen to All Songs ♡Songs for “Red Flags You Tried to Explain Away” · 29 found
Bare Minimum
For when you realize you were being accused of the very things they were doing while you were busy trying to prove your loyalty.
Listen, read & enter the story →No Repair
For when the truth finally came, but the apology, accountability, and repair you needed never came with it.
Listen, read & enter the story →Half In, Half Out
For when they stayed close enough to keep you hoping while emotionally leaving a little more every day.
Listen, read & enter the story →Double Standard
For when you realize you were being held to rules they were quietly breaking themselves.
Listen, read & enter the story →Crumbs and Red Flags
For when you realize you weren’t holding onto the relationship as much as you were holding onto the hope that being chosen would finally make you feel worthy.
Listen, read & enter the story →Love Would Have Listened
For when someone taught you to question your own boundaries, and you’re finally remembering they never needed permission to matter.
Listen, read & enter the story →Gaslight Glow
For when they made you question what you could already feel, until you trusted their version of reality more than your own.
Listen, read & enter the story →Almost
For when “almost” felt like love because it was still more than the kind of presence you learned to expect.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Was Right
For when the truth finally confirms what you felt all along, but being right hurts more than the uncertainty ever did.
Listen, read & enter the story →Wonderful Nothing
For when you stop measuring your worth by someone else’s capacity to recognize, receive, or protect what you gave them.
Listen, read & enter the story →Shiny Lies
For when the promises were beautiful, but eventually their actions told you a completely different story.
Listen, read & enter the story →The Version That Never Existed
For when you’re no longer grieving the relationship, you’re grieving the person you thought you knew inside it.
Listen, read & enter the story →But No, You Didn't Use Me
For when they kept coming back for comfort without staying for the connection that comfort was supposed to belong to.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Should've Listened
or when the deepest heartbreak isn’t losing them, but realizing how many times you stopped listening to yourself just to keep them.
Listen, read & enter the story →Dear Drew ( I Would Have Left )
For when you realize you weren’t begging them to stay, you were giving them every chance to tell you the truth so you could leave.
Listen, read & enter the story →Pick A Side
For when someone wanted you to act taken while keeping themselves free to call you single whenever it benefited them.
Listen, read & enter the story →Louder Than Words
For when quiet felt like safety because you were used to chaos, until you realized silence could leave you lonely too.
Listen, read & enter the story →You Had It Easy
For when you realize they had already started letting go while you were still loving the relationship like it could be saved.
Listen, read & enter the story →Cowards Crown
For when they never had to physically leave the relationship for their attention and honesty to start going somewhere else.
Listen, read & enter the story →If I Could Talk to Her
For when you stop comparing yourself to who comes next and start feeling compassion for the version of yourself who once stood there too.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Don't Envy Her
For when you stop envying who comes next because you remember what being chosen by them eventually cost you.
Listen, read & enter the story →Came Back Like You Meant It
For when they came back like they were choosing you while hiding the truth that would’ve made you walk away.
Listen, read & enter the story →The Cost Of Believing You
For when you trusted their reassurance over your intuition, only to find out your body had been telling you the truth.
Listen, read & enter the story →Red Flags
For when you’re finally more interested in protecting your peace than decoding another person’s red flags.
Listen, read & enter the story →Left Me Guessing
For when they kept you questioning yourself while hiding the very truth your instincts were trying to find.
Listen, read & enter the story →What Kind Of Man Does That?
For the part of you left questioning reality after someone knowingly let you make choices without the truth.
Listen, read & enter the story →Return To Sender
For when you finally realize the doubt, blame, and confusion they left you carrying were never yours to keep.
Listen, read & enter the story →I Knew ( But I Stayed )
For when you knew something wasn’t right, but kept explaining it away because accepting the truth meant having to leave.
Listen, read & enter the story →Easy Out
For when you gave them every chance to leave honestly, but they kept giving you reasons to stay.
Listen, read & enter the story →All Songs